Rik Stevens, CPTSD Mentor

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Breaking the Cycle: How Therapy Helps Police Officers and Others Overcome CPTSD, PTSD, and Chronic Stress

Living with Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD), Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), or chronic stress is akin to being trapped in a relentless storm. The mind becomes a battlefield where the past incessantly invades the present, leaving little room for hope or healing. As a Mental Welfare Coach and Hypnotherapist, I often encounter individuals who are ensnared by an overpowering need to understand “Why is this happening to me?” This question, while seemingly innocuous, can become a formidable barrier to recovery. Let’s delve into why this happens and explore how therapies can offer a path to liberation.

The Tyranny of “Why”

When people endure trauma or prolonged stress, their minds instinctively seek to make sense of their experiences. This search for meaning often crystallises into the persistent question, “Why?” For many, this question becomes a coping mechanism, a way to exert control over a chaotic and unpredictable reality. However, this relentless focus on the “why” can be a double-edged sword.

The Neuroscience of Obsession

Our brains are wired to seek patterns and explanations. This is a fundamental survival mechanism. However, when it comes to trauma and stress, this mechanism can backfire. The brain’s limbic system, which governs our emotional responses, remains in a state of hyperarousal. This keeps the amygdala, the brain’s fear centre, on high alert, constantly scanning for threats and replaying traumatic events. The prefrontal cortex, responsible for rational thought and decision-making, struggles to impose order on this chaos. The result? A looping cycle of obsessive thinking and rumination.

The Emotional Consequences

This incessant questioning traps individuals in their trauma. By fixating on the “why,” they inadvertently reinforce their pain, re-living their experiences and entrenching negative thought patterns. Conversations become dominated by the same subject, a relentless rehashing of trauma that offers no resolution, only temporary relief through expression.

The Unique Stress of Police Officers

Police officers often join the force driven by a strong sense of justice and a desire to serve and protect their communities. However, their profession exposes them to high levels of stress, particularly when faced with spurious complaints and fabricated allegations. These false accusations can lead to drawn-out investigations that sometimes last for years, placing an enormous psychological burden on the officers involved.

The Impact of False Accusations

For officers who are falsely accused, the investigation process can be deeply demoralising. They find themselves in a situation where their integrity and actions are questioned, yet they often feel powerless to defend themselves adequately. The protracted nature of these investigations exacerbates the stress, as officers remain in a state of uncertainty and anxiety for extended periods. This situation is particularly damaging because it strikes at the core of their identity and values, leading to feelings of injustice and helplessness.

This stress cycle is intensified by the overwhelming fear and anxiety about the potential consequences of the accusations. Officers worry incessantly: “Will I lose my job? Will I go to prison?” Even when their legal team reassures them that there is no evidence to support the allegations, the fear remains. The uncertainty and lack of control over the outcome perpetuate a state of heightened stress and anxiety. This emotional taint can severely impact their mental health, leading to insomnia, depression, and a pervasive sense of dread. At the moment, I am not aware of any forces that record Police Constable suicide rates. This lack of data underscores the urgent need for greater awareness and support for officers under such immense pressure.

 Breaking the Cycle with Therapy

To break free from this cycle, it’s essential to shift the focus from “Why is this happening?” to “What can I do to heal?” This is where therapy comes into play. Various therapeutic approaches can facilitate this shift, helping individuals move from a place of confusion and pain to one of clarity and healing.

Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT)

EFT, often referred to as “tapping,” is a powerful tool in the therapeutic arsenal. It combines elements of cognitive therapy with acupressure, tapping on specific meridian points on the body while focusing on negative emotions or traumatic memories.

EFT helps to calm the amygdala, reducing the brain’s stress response. By tapping on these meridian points, individuals can interrupt the body’s habitual response to stress and trauma. This process not only alleviates the physical symptoms of anxiety but also helps to reframe the emotional experience.

 Content-Free Hypnosis

Content-free hypnosis is another effective approach, particularly for those who find discussing their trauma too painful or retraumatising. This technique involves guiding individuals into a hypnotic state where they can address their issues without delving into the specifics of their experiences.

The Benefits of Content-Free Hypnosis

Content-free hypnosis allows the subconscious mind to process and resolve trauma in a safe and non-intrusive manner. By bypassing the need to articulate traumatic events, it reduces the risk of re-traumatisation and promotes a sense of safety and control.

 Integrating Other Therapies

While EFT and content-free hypnosis are powerful on their own, integrating other therapeutic approaches can further enhance their effectiveness. Here are a few that complement these methods:

1. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT):

   – CBT helps individuals recognise and change negative thought patterns. When combined with EFT, it provides a structured framework for addressing the cognitive distortions that often accompany trauma.

2. Mindfulness and Meditation:

   – Mindfulness practices encourage individuals to stay present, reducing the power of past traumas over their current lives. Meditation can help cultivate a sense of inner peace and resilience.

3. Somatic Experiencing:

   – This therapy focuses on releasing trauma stored in the body. By paying attention to physical sensations and using gentle movements, individuals can discharge the energy trapped by traumatic experiences.

4. Art and Music Therapy:

   – Creative therapies provide a non-verbal outlet for expressing and processing emotions. They can be particularly beneficial for those who struggle to articulate their feelings.

If you have or are serving in the Military or Emergency Services, Trojan Wellbeing offer peer support and has a variety of therapists who have served or understand what its like to serve.

The Road to Healing

Healing from CPTSD, PTSD, and chronic stress is a journey that requires patience, compassion, and the right support. By shifting the focus from “why” to “how,” individuals can take proactive steps towards recovery. Therapies like EFT and content-free hypnosis offer powerful tools for breaking free from the cycle of obsession and moving towards a life of balance and fulfilment.

A Personal Approach

I emphasise a holistic approach to wellness. This means not only addressing the psychological aspects of trauma but also considering physical health, nutrition, and overall lifestyle. By creating a comprehensive plan that includes therapy, mindfulness, exercise, and proper nutrition, individuals can build a strong foundation for lasting recovery.

Conclusion

Yes Darling, understanding “why” trauma and stress occur is a natural and important part of the healing process. However, it is equally important to not let this question dominate one’s journey. For police officers and others facing unique stresses, acknowledging the specific challenges and finding tailored therapeutic approaches is crucial. By embracing therapies like EFT and content-free hypnosis, and integrating them with other supportive practices, individuals can move beyond the confines of their past and step into a future of hope and healing. As a Mental Welfare Coach and Hypnotherapist, my mission is to guide people on this path, empowering them to reclaim their lives and thrive despite the challenges they have faced.

If you or someone you know is struggling with CPTSD, PTSD, or chronic stress, know that help is available. Reach out, take that first step, and begin your journey towards a healthier, happier life.

Contact Rik@CPTSDrelief.co.uk

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